Tag: Toxic Thoughts

  • Toxic Thoughts…

    Toxic Thoughts…

    by Beth Haley

    I’ve read a lot recently on thoughts. Especially negative thinking, or stinkin’ thinking, as I’ve heard it called. These are thoughts that hold us back. They poison our potential, and sour our outlook. We all have them:

    Not you

    You’re not pretty enough

    You’re too old

    You’re too gay

    You’re not good enough

    You’re not perfect enough

    You’re not skilled enough

    Somebody else is better


    If you would, allow the idea that toxic thoughts can serve a positive purpose.


    One idea I came across is to use negative thoughts as launching pads towards growth and healing. They are telling us something about ourself. What are they pointing to?

    For example, thoughts such as, “I can’t do this”, “I’m not ready” or “I’m not good enough at this” can point to the need to dig into deeper study, gather more knowledge, get more training, or be more prepared. With a little extra work, you may find that those thoughts change along with your confidence level to: “I’m ready”, “I can do this”, and “I am good enough at this”!



    In real-estate,

    Love it or list it.

    And, if it’s not serving you

    well, flip it:

    Yes you

    You’re pretty enough

    You’re not too old

    You’re not too gay

    You’re good enough

    You’re perfect enough

    You’re skilled enough

    You shine


    What are our toxic thoughts pointing to?

    How can we use them for growth or healing?

    How can we flip them into positive affirmations?


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