Tag: Complimentary Health

  • Relationship Overlay

    Relationship Overlay

    by Beth Haley

    Imagine that you’re on a date, and your date showers you with their description of everything you are to them:

    “You love the color pink, and we both love white wine! You are always so patient and just adore bungee jumping. Based on all these things, that you are, I see us happy forever!


    I look around. There’s no one else there.

    Me: Who are you talking about?”

    Them: “Well… you.”

    Me: “I don’t even like pink.”

    Them: “Oh, yes you do! I’m sure of it.”

    Me: “I’ve never bungee jumped. Never will.”

    Them: “But, I know you, and you’ll love it.”

    Me: “No. I won’t.”

    Me: “I don’t like white wine.”

    Them: “Sure you do! You just haven’t tried it with salmon yet.”

    Me: “I don’t like salmon.”

    Them: “Well… sure you do. You just haven’t eaten salmon from the other restaurant.”

    Me: “I’m not patient. Patience is something I am working toward. Today however, patience has escaped me completely.”

    Them: “Naw, you’re the most patient person I know! We’re a match made in heaven!”



    Seeing someone through the lens of what you want them to be, rather than who they actually are, isn’t love. It’s called an “overlay.”

    Seeing a fantasy instead of reality, is dangerous to our well-being because we see what we want to see, rather than what is really there. If what is really there, is a cliff with a 100-foot drop off the ledge, then it’s a really bad time to see a rose-covered bridge.

    Knowing and seeing reality gives you the correct information, to make the choices that are right for you.



    Inspirational Reading:

    Overlay (What Prevents You From Having a Real Relationship) by Teal Swan



    Adi Mudra



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  • New Moon Mudra

    New Moon Mudra

    by Thela 🦊 Foxgood

    I was looking today for a mudra that could capture, in some way, what the new moon represents:

    • A fresh start
    • Re-birth
    • Starting something new
    • Setting intentions

    I came across so many different ones that have been used for new moon meditations. So, as I tried out different mudras, I just picked the one that really stood out and resonated with me energetically.

    It is called Adhara Mudra.



    New Moon Meditation

    Define your intention, as a simple statement.

    You can cleanse your hands and activate energy by rubbing them together, and then by shaking them out.

    Find a comfortable sitting position, and hold the Adhara mudra in front of your navel, shoulders relaxed.

    Focus on your inhale and exhale, feeling your breath rise and fall in your body.

    Feel the energy of this mudra through your hands. What sensations do you notice?

    Consider the space you’ve created through the palms of your hands. Begin to focus on your intention and how you have created this sacred space within your hands as a gesture of your openness to receive.

    Hold this mudra, and your intention in your mind, for 10 minutes. Before releasing your hands, repeat your intention, like a mantra, three times.

  • Adi Mudra

    Adi Mudra

    by Beth Haley

    I had started studying mudras months ago, but before I could really get started on mudras, I became captivated with the principles of mantras. So this week, I am picking back up with mudras for a class.



    The word mudra means seal, gesture or sign.



    What has been interesting to me in studying mudras, is that many hand positions that I’ve often seen others, or myself do, are actually mudras: they have a name, and have a specific effect on the body, mind, and emotions.

    Which, is why we do them instinctively.

    For example: the habit of placing the fingertips of one hand against the fingertips of the other hand, is something I see people do when they’re thinking or need more clarity, which is called the Hakini mudra.

    Another well-known hand gesture is to hold your hands in the prayer 🙏 posture. This is known by a few different names such as: Anjali mudra, Pranav mudra, and Namaste mudra. According to Zenned Out, this mudra represents union, connecting the left and right sides of the brain, and also connects our masculine and feminine energies. I’ve seen prayer posture held before the heart and also against the forehead.



    Why do children suck their thumbs?



    This is another aspect of the magick in our hands that I had never really thought about.

    The thumb is associated with the element of fire. So what do you do when there’s a fire, such as an emotional upset? Sticking it in your mouth helps to sooth and put the fire out.



    Adi Mudra

    This mudra is done by placing your thumb next to the base of your pinkie finger, and then wrapping all of your fingers over and around your thumb.

    This is another one I didn’t know was a mudra, or know that it had a name. I now know that some of its benefits are to help soothe and relax.

    For about 3 years, I often fell asleep with this mudra, or I would hold my hands this way when I was anxious or stressed in some way. I didn’t know why. It just seemed comforting. I saw a picture of it today, and realized that I rarely ever use this mudra anymore.

    A few years ago I was beginning to be interested in the practice of mindfulness, and I spoke to a counselor who specialized in mindfulness training. I entered her office with my stack of mindfulness books. After I met with her a few times, she looked at me very quizzically, and asked, “Why do you have all these mindfulness books for anxiety? You’re not anxious.”

    That was a fine moment: to be able to look back and see that where I used to be standing, is no longer where I am standing today.

    I realize now, that the years that I used this mudra and studied mindfulness books for anxiety, were during the same years. And today, I am free of both: the anxiety and the need to use the mudra.

    The mudra, along with mindfulness practice, were tools. They were coping skills.



    However, the most healing thing I’ve done since those years, is to remove myself from the situation that I was in at that time. Coping skills can only do so much… you have to remove yourself from unhealthy situations, and not return to them.



    All this to say: Mudras! They really work. For whatever issue you are dealing with, physically, emotionally, or mentally… there’s a mudra for it!


    Note: If you, or anyone you know, suffers from abandonment / separation anxiety, give the Adi mudra a try. Use it like a meditation for 10 minutes a day. And, if you combine an intention with your mudra, and a mantra (stating your intention out loud), it is even more powerful.



    As with any alternative practice: mudras, and the content written here, are not meant to take the place of professional advice. Even the best practices can come with contraindications, precautions, and warnings. While mudras are beneficial, working with our bodies energetic meridians, energy points, and chakra centers, not all mudras are a good fit for everyone. If in doubt, check with a health care professional first.


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  • Post-It Notes 9

    Post-It Notes 9

    It all starts with you!





    Appreciation is a Choice

    “I can promise you this, there’s somebody in the world, praying to be in your shoes.”

    “Be grateful for everything that you have.”

    “Appreciation is a choice that you can make every single day.”

    “It all starts with you!”

    -Trent Shelton


    Trent’s Inner Circle

    TrentShelton.com



    Origami Masu Box



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  • Origami Masu Box

    Origami Masu Box

    by Beth Haley

    Masu boxes were originally square wooden boxes used for measuring out rice during a time when powerful families, military warlords and samurai ruled Japan, called the feudal period of Japanese history.



    Today, I made a masu box, with a lid, out of origami paper.

    It’s a great size for small treasures or small desk items like paperclips, and for an uncovered box, if you double the paper with both plain sides facing inward, the bottom of your box will have a nice design also.



    Otherwise the inside looks like this:

    Which is fine if it’s going to be covered by a lid anyways!



    Directions for making an origami masu box: Origami.me

  • Keto Herb Bread

    Keto Herb Bread

    by Beth Haley

    This recipe is for people who are on a low-carb or Keto eating plan. There are many different types of low-carb eating plans. The trick is to find the plan that works for you. There is not a “one-diet-fits-everyone” type of plan out there.

    The nice thing about eating low-carb, is that you’re not necessarily eating less … you’re just eating different.

    This was inspired by 90-Second Keto Bread @ Tasty, but I wanted to make a bigger batch that is cooked in an oven instead of a microwave.


    Keto Herb Bread

    Servings: 2-4

    6 TBS. almond flour

    1 tsp. Baking powder

    1/2 C grated Dubliner cheese (or your favorite)

    2 tsp. Fresh basil chopped, or 1 tsp. Dried basil

    1 tsp. Garlic powder

    1/8 tsp Pink Himalayan salt (or to taste)

    Pepper, to taste

    2 TBS. butter, melted

    2 eggs, beaten

    Mix all dry ingredients together until well blended. Then add meted butter and beaten eggs. Mix until smooth.

    Split mix into two single-serve ramekins and bake at 400 degrees for 8-10 minutes.



    Or, I spread mine onto the bottom of a small square casserole dish, then cut it into squares.

    This bread is thin enough to exchange for two slices of regular bread to make a veggie sandwich with.

  • Greatness

    Greatness

    by Beth Haley

    I was reminded today, about a book I had not read for a long time. It is called, “Meditations, by Marcus Aurelius.”

    Marcus Aurelius Antonius’ real name was M. Annius Verus. Upon his father’s death, Marcus was adopted by his grandfather who taught him to be “gentle and meek, and to refrain from all anger and passion.” It is written that Marcus’ education was, “conducted with all care”…and that “He was taught to dress plainly and to live simply” and “to avoid all softness and luxury.”

    Meditations, by Marcus Aurelius



    What makes a great man? Perhaps it is in his act of being open to learning and in recognizing the masters and teachers that are brought into his path. Is this then wisdom, to be able to say, “All that I am is here, listed below, by name: These were my masters.”

    Marcus Aurelius, wrote, in detail, about the people who were instrumental in shaping his life: “…whether Parents, Friends, or Masters; by their good examples, or good advice and counsel, he had learned…”

    Meditations, by Marcus Aurelius



    In our writing today, this would be seen many times in the beginning of the book under, “Acknowledgements” or “Dedication”, with a name and a short note of thanks and appreciation.

    If I were to write anything noteworthy, I would want a dedication, such as Aurelius wrote, that honored all the teachers that have influenced my life. And, the more I think on it, the longer my list grows.



    Who would be honored in the pages of your book?


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  • Baby Steps

    Baby Steps

    by Beth Haley

    Our health journey does not have to be full of super complicated or difficult tasks. It can start with one single step, which leads to another and another.



    One small step could be as simple as giving an area of your home or office a splash of color or breath of fresh air by adding a new houseplant. They help to clean our air by absorbing carbon dioxide and releasing oxygen.

    NASA research has shown that houseplants can remove up to 87% of air toxins in one day and night cycle. –NASA SPINOFF

    This makes plants great for your home space and workplace as well.



    African Violet

    Symbolism: the African Violet speaks the language of deepest love and commitment.



    Plants for the Bedroom

    At night, when photosynthesis stops, many plants can give off carbon dioxide. “However plants such as orchids, succulents, snake plants and bromeliads do the opposite and emit oxygen” which makes them perfect for sleeping areas.

    NBC News: Why Indoor Plants Make You Feel Better



    All plant photos were taken from my indoor garden many years ago…


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  • When we Cling

    When we Cling

    When we hold on and cling to what was… our comfort zone… remember the tree.



  • Marinade Recipe

    Marinade Recipe

    by Beth Haley


    For eight hours every night, during sleep (or however long you rest), our subconscious mind is marinating. So what we think on in those few moments before sleep, is like setting the channel for the night. Consciously place those thoughts that you want to rest with, in your mind.


    Subconscious Mind Marinade

    1 tsp: I am Well

    1 tsp: I am at Peace

    1 tsp: I am Content

    1 tsp: I am Prosperous

    1 tsp: I am Abundant

    1 tsp: I am Happy

    1 tsp: I enjoy my Life

    1 tsp: Inner Quietness

    1 tsp: I am Secure

    1 tsp: Releasing all Burdens

    1 tsp: Knowing, that all answers will come to me at the right time, without struggle or worry.


    Directions

    Mix up all ingredients 5 minutes before sleep.

    Pour on your mind to marinate overnight, and know, that you are about to program your subconscious.

    © BH 2019


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